Resolving conflicts assertively

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Resolving conflicts assertively
6 min3rd4thSocial-Emotional Learning
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Summary

Shows how to handle a disagreement calmly and fairly — speaking up honestly without being aggressive or giving in.

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Discussion questions

Talk about it

Being assertive means saying what you need calmly and respectfully — not shouting (aggressive) and not staying silent (passive). It helps solve problems fairly.

  1. What is the difference between being assertive and being aggressive?
  2. How can 'I feel...' statements help in an argument?
  3. Why is listening part of solving a conflict?

Quick work-a-long

Vocabulary: conflict, assertive, calm, compromise.

Try it: Practice an 'I feel... because...' statement for a small disagreement you've had.